Friday, 2 May 2014
FRIENDSHIP
According to Wikipedia friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people. Also a stronger form of interpersonal bond than an association. I agree with that and according to me it is finding someone you can pour out your soul to and they will not judge you harshly but correct you when you stray from the right path. In life you meet a lot of people; some are good others are not. Some people you meet and in less than five seconds you have clicked and become instant friends and there others after you have met them it takes a longer time for you two to become friends. No matter how you meet your friends you are not guaranteed of a lasting relationship. Some relationships have a shorter life span than others some are for a lifetime.
In my life l have met a lot of people some are still in my life, some we had a fall out a long time ago and others we just lost contact and the friendship died. For me and l think most of you when it comes to making friends the person have to have a personality that is close to mine in order for the friendship to work. But most of the time that is not necessary because l am an extrovert an as you know people with this kind of personality talk a lot an intern want someone who is an introvert better known as listeners to listen to what l have to say. But according to me this type of people doesn’t make best friends because this person tends to be a pushover, the kind of people who do what there told and don’t ask questions. These types of people tend to please everyone and can end up spilling your secrets to other people in order for them to be liked or favored. On the other side extroverts tend to have their own say to everything and most of the time the end up quarreling when they can’t have their way or dint get what they wanted. Most extroverts are spoiled brats if l may call them that. This is because, this people are used to having their way since from an early age and expect that how they’re treated at home is how everyone should treat them. This type of people normally does not have long lasting friends or even relationships.
With that being said when choosing your friends, chose someone that will last in your life for a long period of time to spare yourself the time of going through breakups and fall-outs. I would suggest someone that is almost the same as you so that you understand each other better and avoid the many dramas in friendship.
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